I offer a number of different Tantra services. Scroll to find out more about each.
Tantra Healing Sessions
The act of sex is a vital creative force to be cultivated, harnessed and expressed/directed, yet many have not had the space to really delve deeper into it. We are trained to run from it, hide it, and diminish it. We are taught that our desires are evil, wrong or worse yet- under someone else’s control. There is no satisfaction in those options. Through the study, application and integration of tantra, we can tap into the limitless source of abundance that is our sexuality- leading us to better health, improved relationships, inner peace and joy. Tantra teaches us that any mindful activity, if we dive deep enough, will lead us to our ultimate free. Our sexualities are key compasses on that journey.
My Tantra Healing Sessions combine Tantra Healing Massage and Tantric Energy Projection, also known as active shamanistic tantra.
Tantric Energy Projection (or Shamanistic Tantra) is deeply present bodywork that follows the body’s direction to facilitate natural healing processes. Practitioner and client focus deeply on what is being experienced through the body. The emotionally, sensually, and energetically meaningful touch of an embodied therapist facilitates physical, emotional and spiritual healing. Combining conscious touch with tantric energy projection work, tantric energy work facilitates erotic reawakening. Using sexual energy (universal life energy) to remove obstructions to one’s natural flow of energy through the channels of the body, this style of sexual shamanistic energy work helps in the removal of these obstructions, which are essential in order for a person to be able to return to their true essential energy as an embodied experience.
In the tantric tradition, the human body is regarded as a temple, worthy of worship, sacred admiration, and… intense pleasure beyond imagination…. In the sexual teachings of Tantra, intimate massage has developed into one of the most profound healing modalities available on the planet today. This massage is a fusion of techniques aimed at created deep relaxation and release of trauma. It facilitates realignment of the spirit and body while creating pleasure. Hot Stones and/or Lava Shells can be added to this service.
In modern society we rarely go through life without shame, some form of trauma and loss of our energy. This style of bodywork takes us through a journey of inner transformation. In this hands-on, energy based style of bodywork, we use sexual energy (universal life energy) to remove blockages to one’s natural flow through the energy centers in the physical body. This enables us to reconnect with our innate power, and creativity.
Tantric BDSM - Sacred Surrender Sessions
Explore your deeper desires and experience extreme pleasure by immersing yourself in an experience that will uncover deeper sensuality. We open the path to diverse tastes of pleasure and arouse your shadow side to come out and play. Together, we will use a heady blend of power/surrender dynamics and sensation play to evoke, tease and explore.
In a safe, sacred space, you will be able to consciously connect to your deepest self and integrate the light and the dark within you, helping you intimately connect with your passionate inner sexual being.
Incorporating the tantric practice of sensual breath work, mindfulness and ritual into our sacred kink play generates a profound sensuality and resonance, while supporting a safe, sane consensual space, even in the most intense play.
To uncover satisfaction, we employ a number of erotic methods combined with heart-pounding Sacred kink and tantric techniques, dominating you with empowering sexual energy, gracing every inch of your being with a more daring new brand of sensuality. Classic Tantric techniques will also be offered.
Sacred Kink Fetish Sessions
These sessions are for fetishists who are interested in milder, pleasure-oriented sessions. These sessions give you the opportunity to explore a kink and/or fetish, try D/s play, gain 1 to 1 training on BDSM and Kink, and experience different fetishes in a safe, pleasure-oriented container.
What is the difference between the two sessions?
The difference is the intention. Fetish sessions are intended to explore fetish and kink in a safe space, as well as fantasy role play. Tantric BDSM sessions are healing, energetic, transcendent sessions, aimed at expanding and healing both sexually and spiritually using a fusion of Tantra, Kink, fetish and BDSM as the vehicles.
Guided Tantric Meditation
In modern life there are few opportunities for stillness, so it is more important than ever to take time out of busy lives and be present to what we are experiencing through the body. Embodied Tantric Meditation helps us slow the body’s processes down, shifting the nervous system into parasympathetic functioning, which is necessary to relax, revitalize and allow the body’s healing processes time to function.
Embodied Tantric Meditation combines yoni breathing or lingham building (created by Tafari Khumbaka and Katrina Ifill) to completely transform our erotic awareness. In Embodied Tantric Meditation teaches us to live through the awareness of the body. In living through the body we are grounded in reality and open to both the natural limitations and boundless potential of the present moment.
All we have is right now. Everything else is memories of the past or dreams of the future.
Coaching in Embodied Tantric Meditation is available for individuals, people in relationships, and groups who wish to practice together. As well as face-to-face classes, embodied meditation classes are effective via Skype.
What is Tantra?
THE WORD "TANTRA" COMES FROM THE SANSKRIT "TANOTI" - "TO EXPAND" AND "TRAYATI" - "LIBERATION".
To expand consciousness is to liberate us from the confines and limitations of our physical being. In living in tantric awareness, we use the five senses to their limit then break beyond that limit. Tantra teaches you to explore every aspect of your consciousness; tantra is a Yogic Science that’s employed to ensure it. Tantra isn't only about sex, as most westerners believe. There are many other aspects to Tantra; yet, it does offer the most comprehensive teachings and practices on how to cultivate and utilize our sexual energy beyond procreation and sense gratification. Tantra gives us the tools to use our sexuality in order to develop spiritually.
Yoga is the science of expanding consciousness. Tantra Yoga is the sexual path, a vast and ancient system of rituals and practical techniques which use the great creative energy of sexuality to propel you into higher states of consciousness. Many modern yoga schools improperly teach that we should sublimate our senses in striving for transcendent truth. They frown on sexuality arguing that it distracts seekers from the goal of samadhi or enlightenment. But this is only because they don't understand sexual energy and how to use it for their aim. The reality is that spiritual and sexual energy are two sides of the same coin - the upward flowing spiritual energy "becomes" sexual when it turns down. This is inner alchemy.
Tantra is a practice in which sexual energy is generated and harnessed for purification of the energetic body. By fusing feminine and masculine polarities, either within one’s own body or by merging souls with a beloved partner of opposite energies (such as masculine and feminine), a pathway can be created through which energetic communion with the Source could occur.
A brief history of Tantra
TANTRA HAS ALWAYS EXISTED. HUMANKIND HAS ALWAYS WONDERED ABOUT THE MYSTERY OF EXISTENCE AND THE PRIMORDIAL POWER OF SEXUALITY.
In antiquity, Tantra was once a worldwide spiritual practice, a common thread to be found in all civilizations. The most popular practices in modern times trace their origins with Hindus in India, Taoists in China and Tibetan Buddhism. Egyptian tantra, although more obscure, is included in that list. Tantra teachings were closely guarded, transmitted orally from master to disciple, generally after extended periods of preparation, spiritual development and purification. Deeper secrets were guarded as protection from misuse, but also to give royalty and priesthood a tremendous advantage over the masses.
The 11th and 12th centuries were the Golden Age of Tantra when it was practiced widely and openly. Muslim invasion in India during the 13th century brought the slaughter of all Tantrics and wholesale destruction of their manuscripts. Tantrics were forced underground where it has remained until this day. Tantrics in Tibet were able to preserve this wisdom in remote monasteries but the Communist invasion repeated the slaughter and attempt to eradicate Tantric practice.
Practicing tantra is a revolutionary act: my practice
Tantra, in my practice is a mindful weaving and integrating of the senses, the spirit and the somatic. My work is centered around Total Liberation and tantra provides an integrative path to samadhi. Drawing from various lineage of tantra, I consider my approach a merging of tantric techniques.
In my journey, what I have discovered is that tantra is the methodology of actively, mindfully, loving and being present.
Tantric Healing Sessions are available to assist in:
removing sexual trauma from the body
clearing sexual conditionings, including feelings of shame, guilt, old belief systems, etc.
re-sensitizing the body, including heart area and genitals
erectile dysfunction (for men) and vaginal numbness (for women)
premature ejaculation (for men) and frigidity (for women)
opening the energy in the body for more intense, full body orgasms
becoming a multi-orgasmic person
releasing conditionings and old belief systems from the body
opening the heart center
opening, clearing and rebalancing the chakras to create more access to the higher energy centers
opening the way for abundance and creativity
releasing fears, anxiety, feelings of unworthiness
elevating the frequency of the man's or woman's energy
releasing unprocessed feelings (anger, rage, unworthiness, guilt, etc.) which affect present interactions
The beneficial aspects of Tantra Healing Sessions are many. Its significance today as an instrument of healing is far-reaching and, in fact, mind-blowing. Not only is it famed for its ability to remove sexual and energetic blockages from the body, but it can also eradicate common dysfunctions, an inability to achieve deep states of orgasm (especially in the case of women), and other psychosomatic issues. This is a beautiful way to share the very beneficial aspects of touch and energy exchange, and to bring restorative, sacred healing to yourself.